Improve database detection logic in datachecksumsworker

Improve database detection logic in datachecksumsworker

The worker need to know whether a database which failed checksum
processing still exists, or has been dropped.  This improves the
detection logic by checking for being partially dropped.

Author: Daniel Gustafsson <daniel@yesql.se>
Reviewed-by: Tomas Vondra <tomas@vondra.me>
Reviewed-by: SATYANARAYANA NARLAPURAM <satyanarlapuram@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Ayush Tiwari <ayushtiwari.slg01@gmail.com>
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/9197F930-DDEB-4CAC-82A2-16FEC715CCE8@yesql.se