dax/cxl: Fix HMEM dependencies

dax/cxl: Fix HMEM dependencies

The expectation is that DEV_DAX_HMEM=y should be disallowed if any of
CXL_ACPI, or CXL_PCI are set =m. Also DEV_DAX_CXL=y should be disallowed if
DEV_DAX_HMEM=m. Use "$config || !$config" syntax for each dependency.
Otherwise, the invalid DEV_DAX_HMEM=m && DEV_DAX_CXL=y configuration is
allowed.

Lastly, dax_hmem depends on the availability of the
cxl_region_contains_resource() symbol published by the cxl_core.ko module.
So, also prevent DEV_DAX_HMEM from being built-in when the cxl_core module
is not built-in.

Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Alison Schofield <alison.schofield@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260327052821.440749-3-dan.j.williams@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>