cxl/memdev: fix deadlock in cxl_memdev_autoremove() on attach failure

cxl/memdev: fix deadlock in cxl_memdev_autoremove() on attach failure

cxl_memdev_autoremove() takes device_lock(&cxlmd->dev) via guard(device)
and then calls cxl_memdev_unregister() when the attach callback was
provided but cxl_mem_probe() failed to bind.

cxl_memdev_unregister() calls
  cdev_device_del()
    device_del()
      bus_remove_device()
        device_release_driver()

This path is reached when a driver uses the @attach parameter to
devm_cxl_add_memdev() and the CXL topology fails to enumerate (e.g.
DVSEC range registers decode outside platform-defined CXL ranges,
causing the endpoint port probe to fail).

Add cxl_memdev_attach_failed() to set the scope of the check correctly.

Reported-by: kreview-c94b85d6d2
Fixes: 29317f8dc6ed ("cxl/mem: Introduce cxl_memdev_attach for CXL-dependent operation")
Signed-off-by: Gregory Price <gourry@gourry.net>
Reviewed-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Davidlohr Bueso <dave@stgolabs.net>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260211192228.2148713-1-gourry@gourry.net
Signed-off-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>