attach query counter to NS fetches

attach query counter to NS fetches

there were cases in resolver.c when queries for NS records were
started without passing a pointer to the parent fetch's query counter;
as a result, the max-recursion-queries quota for those queries started
counting from zero, instead of sharing the limit for the parent fetch,
making the quota ineffective in some cases.

(cherry picked from commit d3b7e92783754e9a4ce93046fadcb96c5439a0d7)