KVM: arm64: Prevent teardown finalisation of referenced 'hyp_vm'

KVM: arm64: Prevent teardown finalisation of referenced 'hyp_vm'

Destroying a 'hyp_vm' with an elevated referenced count in
__pkvm_finalize_teardown_vm() is only going to lead to tears.

In preparation for allowing limited references to be acquired on dying
VMs during the teardown process, factor out the handle-to-vm logic for
the teardown path and reuse it for both the 'start' and 'finalise'
stages of the teardown process.

Signed-off-by: Will Deacon <will@kernel.org>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260331155056.28220-2-will@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Marc Zyngier <maz@kernel.org>