gh-143988: Fix re-entrant mutation crashes in socket sendmsg/recvmsg_into (#143987)

gh-143988: Fix re-entrant mutation crashes in socket sendmsg/recvmsg_into (#143987)

Fix crashes in socket.sendmsg() and socket.recvmsg_into() that could
occur if buffer sequences are mutated re-entrantly during argument
parsing via __buffer__ protocol callbacks.

The bug occurs because:

1. PySequence_Fast() returns the original list object when the input
   is already a list (not a copy).
2. During iteration, PyObject_GetBuffer() triggers __buffer__
   callbacks which may clear the list.
3. Subsequent iterations access invalid memory (heap OOB read).

The fix replaces PySequence_Fast() with PySequence_Tuple() which
always creates a new tuple, ensuring the sequence cannot be mutated
during iteration.

Co-authored-by: tonghuaroot <23011166+tonghuaroot@users.noreply.github.com>