- added concept of 'require_embedded' to corresponding_column.

- added concept of 'require_embedded' to corresponding_column.
requires that the target column be present in a sub-element of the
target selectable.
- embedded logic above more appropriate for ClauseAdapter functionality
since its trying to "pull up" clauses that represent columns within
a larger union up to the level of the union itself.
- the "direction" test against the "foreign_keys" collection apparently
works for an exact "column 'x' is present in the collection", no proxy
relationships needed.  fixes the case of relating a selectable/alias
to one of its underlying tables, probably fixes other scenarios