Don't use stack allocated buffer for uv_write()

Don't use stack allocated buffer for uv_write()

On FreeBSD, the stack is destroyed more aggressively than on Linux and
that revealed a bug where we were allocating the 16-bit len for the
TCPDNS message on the stack and the buffer got garbled before the
uv_write() sendback was executed.  Now, the len is part of the uvreq, so
we can safely pass it to the uv_write() as the req gets destroyed after
the sendcb is executed.