bpf: Lose const-ness of map in map_check_btf()

bpf: Lose const-ness of map in map_check_btf()

BPF hash map may now use the map_check_btf() callback to decide whether
to set a dtor on its bpf_mem_alloc or not. Unlike C++ where members can
opt out of const-ness using mutable, we must lose the const qualifier on
the callback such that we can avoid the ugly cast. Make the change and
adjust all existing users, and lose the comment in hashtab.c.

Signed-off-by: Kumar Kartikeya Dwivedi <memxor@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20260227224806.646888-3-memxor@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>