fuse: fix inode initialization race

fuse: fix inode initialization race

Fix a race between fuse_iget() and fuse_reverse_inval_inode() where
invalidation can arrive while an inode is being initialized, causing
the invalidation to be lost.
By keeping the inode state I_NEW as long as the attributes are not valid
the invalidation can wait until the inode is fully initialized.

Suggested-by: Joanne Koong <joannelkoong@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Horst Birthelmer <hbirthelmer@ddn.com>
Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>