bcachefs: bcachefs_metadata_version_directory_size

bcachefs: bcachefs_metadata_version_directory_size

This adds another metadata version for accounting directory size.
For the new version of the filesystem, when new subdirectory items
are created or deleted, the parent directory's size will change
accordingly. For the old version of the existed file system, running
fsck will automatically upgrade the metadata version, and it will
do the check and recalculationg of the directory size.

Signed-off-by: Hongbo Li <lihongbo22@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>