dblink: Reject use_scram_passthrough on foreign-data wrappers
Previously, dblink accepted the use_scram_passthrough option on
foreign-data wrappers via ALTER FOREIGN DATA WRAPPER dblink_fdw
OPTIONS, even though the setting had no effect there.
use_scram_passthrough should be only meaningful for foreign servers
and user mappings, so this commit updates dblink to accept the option
only in those contexts.
Backpatch to v18, where use_scram_passthrough was introduced.