tools/nolibc: use __builtin_offsetof()

tools/nolibc: use __builtin_offsetof()

The current custom implementation of offsetof() fails UBSAN:
runtime error: member access within null pointer of type 'struct ...'
This means that all its users, including container_of(), free() and
realloc(), fail.

Use __builtin_offsetof() instead which does not have this issue and
has been available since GCC 4 and clang 3.

Signed-off-by: Thomas Weißschuh <linux@weissschuh.net>
Acked-by: Willy Tarreau <w@1wt.eu>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260401-nolibc-asprintf-v1-1-46292313439f@weissschuh.net