Use standard die() handler for SIGTERM in bgworkers

Use standard die() handler for SIGTERM in bgworkers

The previous default bgworker_die() signal would exit with elog(FATAL)
directly from the signal handler. That could cause deadlocks or
crashes if the signal handler runs while we're e.g holding a spinlock
or in the middle of a memory allocation.

All the built-in background workers overrode that to use the normal
die() handler and CHECK_FOR_INTERRUPTS(). Let's make that the default
for all background workers. Some extensions relying on the old
behavior might need to adapt, but the new default is much safer and is
the right thing to do for most background workers.

Reviewed-by: Nathan Bossart <nathandbossart@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Kirill Reshke <reshkekirill@gmail.com>
Discussion: https://www.postgresql.org/message-id/5238fe45-e486-4c62-a7f3-c7d8d416e812@iki.fi