Make sure we use the correct SSL object when making a callback

Make sure we use the correct SSL object when making a callback

When processing a callback within libssl that applies to TLS the original
SSL object may have been created for TLS directly, or for QUIC. When making
the callback we must make sure that we use the correct SSL object. In the
case of QUIC we must not use the internal only SSL object.

Fixes #25788

Reviewed-by: Viktor Dukhovni <viktor@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Tomas Mraz <tomas@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/25874)