libnvdimm: Don't use "proxy" headers

libnvdimm: Don't use "proxy" headers

Update header inclusions to follow IWYU (Include What You Use)
principle.

Note that kernel.h is discouraged to be included as it's written
at the top of that file.

While doing that, sort headers alphabetically.

Reviewed-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Andy Shevchenko <andriy.shevchenko@linux.intel.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250627142001.994860-1-andriy.shevchenko@linux.intel.com
Signed-off-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>