Limit Server::inBuf growth (#1898)

Limit Server::inBuf growth (#1898)

After a ReadNow() call, the buffer length must not exceed accumulation
limits (e.g., client_request_buffer_max_size). SBuf::reserve() alone
cannot reliably enforce those limits because it does not decrease SBuf
space; various SBuf manipulations may lead to excessive SBuf space. When
filled by ReadNow(), that space exceeds the limit.

This change uses documented CommIoCbParams::size trick to limit how much
Comm::ReadNow() may read, obeying SQUID_TCP_SO_RCVBUF (server-to-Squid)
and client_request_buffer_max_size (client-to-Squid) accumulation limit.