Update ci and ABI xml files to validate function parameters

Update ci and ABI xml files to validate function parameters

libabigail is currenly only validating symbol presence and version
information in ci.  We should also be validating function parameters,
types, etc.  To do this we need to build the library with -g so the
dwarf information is available for libabigail to interrogate

while we're at it, also add a script to re-generate the xml that abidiff
uses for comparison during ci runs, to make updates easier

Fixes #22712

Reviewed-by: Hugo Landau <hlandau@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Tomas Mraz <tomas@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/22713)