Stasis: Use control queue to prevent crash.

Stasis: Use control queue to prevent crash.

A crash occurred when attempting to set a channel variable on a channel
that had already been hung up. This is because there is a small window
between when a control is grabbed and when the channel variable is set
that the channel can be hung up.

The fix here is to queue the setting of the channel variable onto the
control queue. This way, the manipulation of the channel happens in a
thread where it is safe to be done.

In this change, I also noticed that the setting of bridge roles on
channels was being done outside of the control queue, so I also changed
those operations to be done in the control queue.

ASTERISK-25709 #close
Reported by Mark Michelson

Change-Id: I2a0a4d51bce6fba6f1d9954e40935e42f366ea78