Add API for channel frame deferral.

Add API for channel frame deferral.

There are several places in Asterisk that have duplicated logic
for deferring important frames until later.

This commit adds a couple of API calls to facilitate this automatically.

ast_channel_start_defer_frames(): Future reads of deferrable frames on
this channel will be deferred until later.

ast_channel_stop_defer_frames(): Any frames that have been deferred get
requeued onto the channel.

ASTERISK-26343

Change-Id: I3e1b87bc6796f222442fa6f7d1b6a4706fb33641