Fix use of IO::Socket::IP on windows 2025

Fix use of IO::Socket::IP on windows 2025

Apparently IO::Socket::IP has several odd behaviors on windows 2025,
notably indicating that AF_INET6 isn't a supported family when it
clearly is.

Follow the pattern in determinig the haveIPV6 variable in Proxy.pm, and
record if we determine IPv6 availablity with the IP class or the INET6
class and use the same method when testing port binding

Fixes project/#1213

Reviewed-by: Tim Hudson <tjh@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Richard Levitte <levitte@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Paul Yang <kaishen.yy@antfin.com>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/27780)