[mod_lua] Move SWIG wrapper patches into ".i" typemaps, drop hack.diff (#3043)

[mod_lua] Move SWIG wrapper patches into ".i" typemaps, drop hack.diff (#3043)

A swig 4.1 regeneration dropped several hand-patched wrapper edits.
Express them (and the rest) as SWIG typemaps in `freeswitch.i` so they
survive reswig. `make reswig` now produces the final wrapper directly;
`hack.diff` and its `patch` step are removed.

Restored regressions:
- `setLUA(L)` on returned `Session`: a hangup hook or input callback on
a script-created `freeswitch.Session()` no longer crashes the process
- binary-safe `Stream::read` (`lua_pushlstring`)

Also moved to typemaps:
- `Dbh`/`JSON` self-pointer guards (`%typemap(check)`), now covering
every wrapper including four the hand-patch missed
- type-table isolation (`#define SWIG_TYPE_TABLE mod_lua`)