manager: make systemd+executor a multicall binary

manager: make systemd+executor a multicall binary

Allow systemd-executor to be compiled into a single binary.
The existing -Dlink-executor-shared=true|false is extended to also
allow -Dlink-executor-shared=single (*). The new mode is opt-in,
to allow experimentation and introduce this smoothly.

This saves a little space, but not as much as I expected:
$ ls -l build/{systemd,systemd-executor} build-new/systemd
-rwxr-xr-x 1 zbyszek zbyszek  631520 May 25 22:44 build/systemd
-rwxr-xr-x 1 zbyszek zbyszek  670464 May 25 22:44 build/systemd-executor
-rwxr-xr-x 1 zbyszek zbyszek 1214488 May 25 22:45 build-new/systemd
(This is with -Dbuildtype=debugoptimized -Db_lto=true).
The combined binary is slightly smaller than the sum of the separate
ones, but not much. In both cases, the binaries are linked to
libsystemd-core which is 10MB, so the size of the binaries themselves
doesn't make much of a difference. The executor needs exec-invoke.c
which is huge and not shared with anything else.

Longer term, I want to allow systemd to be linked statically. In
that case, having systemd-executor separate would be very painful.
So the option to use a multicall binary will be necessary.

Previously, we stored the resolved path to systemd-executor and
used it argv[0]. I don't think this was useful. After all, normally
we would use the non-resolved original path as argv[0]. So that
part is dropped, and the resolved path is only logged, but
"systemd-executor" is always used as argv[0]. This makes the
multicall binary work reliably, no matter what the actual file
name is.

(*) This means that compat as the commandline level is maintained:
'meson setup build -Dlink-executor-shared=true …' works as before.
Unfortunately, when using an existing build directory, meson chokes
on the type change and refuses to reconfigure the directory or change
the option or do anything useful. I think meson is DTWT here, but
this is hard to fix. So the build directory probably needs to be
recreated.