sysfs: allow sysfs_read to detect and drop removed disks

sysfs: allow sysfs_read to detect and drop removed disks

All operations that rely on loading from an existing container (like
--add) will fail after a disk has been removed.  Provide an option to
skip missing / offline disks rather than abort.  We attempt to do this
in the load_super_{imsm,ddf}_all cases when mdmon is running i.e. we
already have a consitent version of the metadata running in the system.
Otherwise, we fail as normal and let the administrator fix up the
container.

Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>